The BEST revenge you can do...

A breakup is one of the BEST teachers out there.

You might think I’m crazy…

But bear with me on this.

Let me explain…

I was in a relationship with a girl for a while.

We’ve made the best memories together.

We were inseparable.

We did everything that a normal couple would do.

I was excited about what the future had to offer for us.

However, this one conversation changed me…

My then-girlfriend wanted to talk.

She wanted to break up out of the blue.

With disbelief, I asked why.

She gave me her reasons for why she wanted to make that decision.

Heartbroken, I let her go.

That pain I felt for the first month or 2.

The future I envisioned with her is gone just like that.

I felt lost and lonely.

Later I decided to do something about it.

I can’t just sit and wait for that PAIN to just go away.

It doesn’t work that way.

If I wanted to become better…

I needed to put in the work.

And…

I did.

I used up this pain I had in me and became:

• Better

• Stronger

• More mindful

I was happy with what I had achieved.

but I wasn’t done yet…

I became distant from my then-girlfriend.

I knew that was not what I wanted to do…

But NEEDED to be done.

As I became distant, she began to notice the distance between us.

Months passed by, I went out with some of my friends.

One of them told me that my ex is coming.

I wasn’t expecting that.

She came and to her surprise, she looked at me like I was gold.

She was shocked by the way I’ve improved myself a lot.

Living a happier life without her.

We decided to talk about our lives.

She then asked me something that made her regret her decision…

She asked…

“I was thinking of us going back together, what do you think?”

To which I replied with a simple “No, not interested”

She did not expect me to reject her like that.

She started to get emotional and asked why and what have changed.

I responded with” I understand you want me now, but where were you when I was nothing?”

NO. RESPONSE.

I then told her to have a lovely day and went back to my friends.

Lesson…

If you’re going through a breakup, don’t wait for that pain to go away.

Take action, become something and watch how your life improves over time.

Never see pain as your enemy, see it as your best friend.

That’s the best revenge YOU can do (in a good way of course)

If you’re reading this while heartbroken…

Get up and use this pain as fuel.

Make the people around you surprised by your transformation.

Trust me, you will love it.

Good luck!

Much love,

Sultan Ahmed.